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Women often ask for the relationship or the marriage which is the “container” and forget to ask for love which is the “content” for the container.  

The container is not the same thing as the content.  The container is the Tupperware or the wallet or the syringe.  The content is the food, the money, or the vaccine.  You wouldn’t get the container if you didn’t need it to hold the content.  It’s the same with love and marriage.  Why would you ask for a marriage or a relationship when you don’t have the love yet?  Find LOVE, then ask for the RELATIONSHIP, and after that, ask for the MARRIAGE.  

What you’re saying verbally is not as important as what you’re vibrating emotionally and energetically because the Energy Grid that delivers to you what you’ve asked for does nothing more than read your energetic vibration.  The Energy Grid doesn’t negotiate or argue with you.  It simply gives you what you’re asking for VIBRATIONALLY.  If you’re asking for a marriage, but you’re vibrating “fear of commitment,” you’re not going to get the marriage.  If you’re asking for love, yet you’re vibrating “I’m not lovable,” you’re not going to get the love.  If you’re asking for a relationship, but you’re vibrating “I’m desperate and lonely,” you’re not going to get the relationship.

I can tell you with 100% certainty that your emotional/energetic vibration is far more powerful than your verbal vibration.  Shift how you’re feeling and what you’re open to receiving, and you’ll create the relationship you want.

There are many myths about relationships/marriage out there, and although none of them are true, you’re conditioned from a young age to believe most if not all of them.

Myth #1: Living happily ever after

If you lived happily ever after, there’d be nothing for you to look forward to…nothing to work for, nothing to achieve, and nothing to grow into.

Love and relationships are your vehicles for growth.  Once a relationship has taken you as far as it can, it WILL dissolve even if you continue to externally PRETEND that you’re in a relationship…what is left is the SHELL.

Myth #2:  Love hurts.

Love doesn’t hurt.  If it hurts, then it’s NOT love.  It’s a lesson.  I’ve said this before, and I’m saying it again.  When you ask for true love, you’ll go through a few relationships first that will prepare you for true love.

Very few people are born READY for that true and evolved love.

Love doesn’t hurt, but relationships DO require work, and laziness is the poison that kills a relationship.

Myth #3:  There are no good men out there. OR All the good ones are taken.

There are plenty of good men out there.  I’ve come across many who were not only good but also available.  However, not every good man out there is going to be a compatible match for you or you for him.  Is every dress at the mall a good fit for you? I think not.

For a relationship to work long-term, there has to be compatibility on all levels (mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual) and in all major areas (values and priorities).

Part of asking for love is knowing what you value and prioritize…and NOT changing these values and priorities to fit into his life.

Myth #4: If I change enough, he’ll love me.

If he doesn’t love you, nothing you do will make A DIFFERENCE, and everything you do will make NO DIFFERENCE.

Be yourself!  If your behaviour is not working for you, change it for YOU and not for him.

If he doesn’t love you, he’s not the one for you.

Myth #5: I can change him.

The only person you can change is YOURSELF.  The only person you have control over is YOURSELF.  Change yourself, and he will automatically shift with you, or he will walk out of your life.  Either way, you win because you either have love, or you’re free to love again.

Myth #6: If he would just decide what he wants from me, then I’ll know what to do.

His indecision reflects 2 things:

1)  YOUR indecision
2)  YOUR relinquishing of your own power

What is it that YOU want? Does what YOU want align with what HE wants?  If not, bid him farewell.  Set yourself free!

When you ask for love, you have to prepare the ground for that love seed to be planted and to grow.  If you don’t weed the garden first of old loves, old hurts, old relationships, and old trauma, you’re not going to get the healthy love that you want.

Just like you clear out the clutter and clean your apartment before you buy new furniture, you clear out your heart and clean out your energy field before you receive new love.

If your intention is to be IN LOVE in 2012, then I invite you to enroll in the Relationship Ready program that’s been designed specifically to prepare you for love with ease.

In each session, a sacred space will be held for you to release the old and make way for the new.  You will be guided by your spirit guides throughout the process, and you will be given tools to work with at the end of each session…tools which you can use at any time during and after the program is over.

The program is 1-on-1, so it is customized to you and your specific challenges around love, yet everyone who enrolls in the program will get the same number and type of sessions and will make the same investment.

When you enroll in Relationship Ready, you’ll get the following:

- 1 x 25-minute FREE phone consult
-  7 x 75-minute sessions which include:
o   2 Akashic Records readings (sessions #1 and #7) (via skype)
o   5 Belvaspata (healing of the heart) treatments (sessions #2 to #6)

BONUS:
-  2 prayers
o   1 prayer for your relationship with yourself
o   1 prayer to release all past relationships

Start date: January 2012

To ask questions or to discuss the program with me, email me at reem@reemshibel.com to book your 25-minute FREE phone consult.

Intend! Act! Receive!

Wishing you a year of magical love,

The Heart Mentor

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