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letting go of the past, long term relationship, love, love wounds, relationships, search for love
You may have a very strong desire to share your love and to be in a relationship that honours you and makes you feel joyful. But somehow that’s just not happening, and you can’t figure out why that’s the case. If this sounds like you, then you’re probably unconsciously refusing the energy of love.
You often say that you want love, but your energetic vibration is saying something else. You’re in this cycle of asking for love and then saying that you don’t want it. Energetically, this is like knocking on a door and then running away before someone opens the door. Knock and run; knock and run; knock and run leads to NO RELATIONSHIP!
Before you jump up and tell me that you’re not refusing the energy of love, I’d like you to answer this question honestly: When was the last time you were in a healthy, long-term relationship? If it’s been a while, then you’re likely refusing the energy of love. And that’s perfectly okay as long as you know that you’re doing that. If you’re not ready for love, then you’re not ready for love. If you need a break, then you need a break. If you’ve given up on finding love, then you’ve given up on finding love.
Would you like to “feel” ready for love?
Would you like to be over that break from love?
Would you like to re-ignite your passion for your search for love?
At any given point in time, you’re either in a state of allowing or in a state of resistance. You’re either allowing love to flow to you, or you’re refusing the flow of love towards you. Allowing the energy of love means that you’re “willing” to receive the attention, admiration, and date invitations from those men or women who want to give you that energy regardless of whether it’s what you want or not. Wait! Let me explain this. Allowing the energy means receiving it and then choosing whether to keep it in your life or let it pass through your life and on to someone else. Allowing love means suspending judgment of the person who is showing interest in you. Allowing love means believing that you’re lovable and desirable regardless of your shape and size.
Allowing love means being willing to go out on dates and explore the possibilities of a relationship. Allowing love means getting out of your head and stepping into your heart because love cannot be attracted or found with the head. It’s PURELY an affair of the heart. Choosing who to be in a relationship with and/or who to marry is a matter for the head.
“The worst prison would be a closed heart.” ~ Pope John Paul II
Your search for love ALWAYS begins WITHIN! What is it that you truly want? What makes you happy? Are you happy on your own? If you’re unhappy on your own, a relationship isn’t going to make you happy. You can’t hand this responsibility over to anyone else. It’s ALL YOURS! Find your happiness, and love will find you. Find your worthiness, and worthy men will chase you.
So, let’s look at what stops you from receiving the energy of love. There are many things…
- Love wounds
- Conclusions
- Judgments
- Assumptions
- Experiences
- Thoughts
- Beliefs
- Feelings
- Secret Agendas
- Secret Agreements
- Fantasies
This is a long list, isn’t it?
Did you know that 90 – 98% of your thoughts, beliefs, and feelings do NOT belong to YOU?
This is why you’re struggling with love and why continuing to search for love without clearing out these blocks is pretty much a waste of your time and energy. You’re fighting with yourself. This is why you feel conflicted about love and relationships. Essentially, you’re trying to attract love and create a relationship from other people’s ideas, beliefs, judgments, conclusions, agendas, agreements, and fantasies—all of which you’ve unconsciously adopted as your own.
If you’re ready for a different way of attracting love and showing up in relationships, then this powerful mini-program is for YOU.
Letting Go of the Past to Make Room for a New Relationship with Ease and Joy
You’ll have a new energy around love and relationships in 4 short weeks. Intrigued? Curious? Ready? Click here for program details, FAQs, and investment.
To book your FREE 15-minute, no-obligation, phone consult, email me at reem@reemshibel.com.
Much love to you,
The Heart Mentor
