Have you ever given any thought to how your past may still be affecting or even controlling your present?
And did you know that 85% of people would rather be in a bad relationship than not be in a relationship at all?
That’s a scary statistic, don’t you think?
We often feel stuck or confused because we’re missing information. Receiving that information requires us to ask a question first, so if you’re not in the relationship that you want, have you asked questions about it? According to Gary Douglas, founder of Access Consciousness, when you ask a question, you allow the Universe to open doors for you that never existed before. :-) How awesome is that?
Whether you’re in a bad relationship or no relationship at all right now, the questions that you may need to ask are around your first love. To help you understand why and how you can do that, I’ve written this blog post for that purpose.
Your first love is far more powerful than you give it credit for. The way that first love unfolds and the way it ends have effects that can last years. It affects how you feel about yourself, what you expect of yourself, how valuable you feel, and what you’re able to generate and receive in your life.
Do you still recall your first love? Most people do. And many of those who do, dismiss it.
Love relationships should not be dismissed no matter how long or short they are. Because they are Divine assignments, they are always significant. Some will “feel” more significant than others depending on the length and depth of the relationship, but they are all significant in that they teach you something about yourself, expand your experience with love, communication, boundaries, and power, and often confirm or change your existing beliefs.
On an emotional level, when you end a relationship, you’re less affected by it than when your partner ends the relationship because when your partner ends it, you’re likely to experience feelings of rejection and/or abandonment, lack of worthiness, and lack of lovability. If these feelings are repressed, you end up paying the price in your future relationships in 1 of 2 ways. You either attract partners who have a habit/pattern of rejecting or abandoning you, or you live in fear of being rejected or abandoned.
What does “living in fear of being rejected or abandoned” look like? Usually, it takes the form of sabotaging a relationship very early on…nipping the fear in the bud…before you get hurt. How many times have you done that? How many regrets do you have about relationships that you didn’t get to explore fully?
Either way, you’re left unhappy in love.
Every emotion, feeling, thought, and action that you have or experience is encoded in your energy field and in your cells. Just because you’re not consciously thinking about a past relationship, this doesn’t mean that it isn’t affecting your life and the quality of your relationships in the present.
Take a look at your life, and assess how satisfied you are with the different areas: love, money/finances, career, personal growth, professional growth, health, etc. If you’re struggling in one or more of these areas, you may be holding on to old feelings, old pain, and old points of view about relationships and about yourself. You’d be surprised how often you hold on to the old without consciously being aware of it.
To create a significant shift in these “stuck” areas, I recommend that you get an Akashic Records reading because this is what these readings have been doing for my clients…
“The Akashic Records reading has been very beneficial! I mostly appreciated the insights on self-reflection. I believe much of the feedback I somehow knew, but forgot about. Most important to me was how I truly let go of my feminist origin. I had built a WALL around myself, wasn’t accepting and wasn’t receiving. Realizing this again allowed me to open up to a very dear person to my heart, my husband. I can’t tell you or explain to you how I currently see him. I see every honest, nice, warm, giving and gentle aspect of him that I earlier took for granted, and then dismissed altogether.
From the heart, and with a deep breath, a very warm Thank You.
I’m looking forward to having another session for further clarity.”
~ R., Distribution Manager
“I first noticed a calmness which was new to me. After that, I started to notice the shift in my purpose where now I am focused and my “‘new me’ sense of purpose” is guiding me. I am much more at peace with me. I am less needy (significantly so) in respect to my perceived pressing need for a relationship. By that I mean, me being in pursuit of a relationship. I’m more calm and at ease with myself, and I’m more confident and have a greater sense of assuredness with my new business. Yes, overall a big change in my psychic space.
I have been busy yet very energized and not tired.
Thanks so much for this. ”
~ A. M., Entrepreneur
Is now YOUR time? If it is, this is your chance to TAKE ACTION and release those stuck areas so that they can MOVE AGAIN.
To learn more about the Akashic Records readings, email me at reem@reemshibel.com.
If you’re not ready to take action but want to learn more, download your FREE copy of the Love Assessment here.
Wishing you a year of magical love,
The Heart Mentor
